{"id":2429,"date":"2018-02-05T09:08:09","date_gmt":"2018-02-05T16:08:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/underthetablebooks.com\/blog\/?p=2429"},"modified":"2018-02-05T09:08:09","modified_gmt":"2018-02-05T16:08:09","slug":"thinking","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/underthetablebooks.com\/blog\/archives\/2429","title":{"rendered":"Thinking"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Perception<\/em> pen and ink by Todd<\/p>\n

Descartes wrote, \u201cI think, therefore I am.\u201d Which is the English translation of the French \u201cJe pense, donc je suis.\u201d Which is Descarte\u2019s translation of the Latin, Cogito ergo sum<\/i>.<\/p>\n

I remember the first time I thought about my existence being a matter of thinking I existed, and feeling a bit confused. I was twelve. What if I stopped thinking I existed, would I stop existing?<\/p>\n

Lately I\u2019ve become convinced by reading books about neurobiology and being in therapy again after eons of not being in therapy that: I sometimes feel how I think I feel, and sometimes I feel fine because I\u2019m not thinking; but I\u2019m not sure I exist because I think I exist.<\/p>\n

Several times in my life I\u2019ve been rushed to hospital emergency rooms in cars and ambulances, and whilst en route and feeling my life force ebbing, I felt I existed because my body was alive and if my body stopped being alive I wouldn\u2019t exist. I\u2019m alive, therefore I\u2019m alive.<\/p>\n

About two years ago, due to a nasty run-in with some incompetent medical doctors, I began to experience panic attacks for the first time in my life. If you\u2019ve never had a full-blown panic attack, trust me, you don\u2019t want to have one, not even just to say, \u201cOh, yeah, I\u2019ve had one of those.\u201d I would describe a panic attack to you, but such a thing is beyond the power of words to describe. I might say: Imagine you are hurtling on a plank down a steep hill toward jagged rocks and your body is vibrating so tremendously you feel you may explode before you hit the jagged rocks, and that would not be the half of it.<\/p>\n

The idea that: I think I\u2019m having a panic attack, therefore I am having a panic attack, might be true, but doesn\u2019t help much in the midst of a panic attack. Or maybe it does help. Or could help. Maybe if one could convince one\u2019s self that the panic attack is merely a figment of thinking, and one could stop thinking in that way, then the panic would subside. That is how drugs made to quell panic attacks work. They interfere with the brain thinking we\u2019re panicking, so we stop panicking.<\/p>\n

Anyway, I\u2019ve been having all sorts of helpful feelings and experiences and shifts in self-perception as a result of therapy, and I\u2019ve actually gone some months without too much anxiety impinging on my life. So when visitations from the old anxiety tendrils began anew recently, I was not thrilled.<\/p>\n

I wrote to my therapist: Last night, first time in a long time, my anxiety returned. Dreadful feeling, like the return of someone I really don\u2019t like and hoped never to see again suddenly walking into my house. I was physically exhausted, so I knew that had something to do with my vulnerability to feelings of anxiety. At one point, I felt so angry about my ongoing anxiety, I shouted, \u201cGet out of my life. Let me be happy. Just get out of my life.\u201d And I was greatly relieved, a kind of mini-rage release. I couldn\u2019t bring to mind parents or abusive people from my past. It was more a feeling of being victimized by the idea<\/i> that for some reason it is not okay for me to have a happy healthy life.<\/p>\n

My therapist wrote back, and I paraphrase: \u201cThis actually sounds very ‘normal’ (whatever that is!) to me and I want to say, “So, what’s the problem?” Yes, you have a habit or a propensity for anxiety.<\/p>\n

\u201cStop narrating your mood. Feelings come and go like the tide. Let them move through you without judgment. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU! Perhaps you want the narrator to get out of your life?<\/p>\n

\u201cI understand it is not a pleasant feeling. Stop fighting with it, though, because that just gives it more power over you. Do you check the weather as much as you check your mood and feelings? Do you try to control the weather? Do you judge it? Your feelings are your own atmospheric experience. Let them be what they are and keep on living and Being!<\/p>\n

\u201cWho are you? What are you without the narrative? Who is aware of the anxiety? What is the experience of the experiencer? Put your awareness on itself and let everything else take care of itself. Make sense?\u201d<\/p>\n

I was reminded by those words from my therapist of a time twenty years ago when I was going through great physical difficulties, and I went to a body worker and she would be working on my shoulder or my hip, and the pain would be tremendous, and I would inform her of my pain, and she would say, \u201cStay with the pain. Go into it. Really try to experience everything that composes the pain. Really stay focused on that pain.\u201d<\/p>\n

And if I put my awareness on the pain, by golly, the pain would either go away or jump to another part of my body, which amazed me and made me wonder: what is pain?<\/p>\n

Twenty years later, I regularly go to a superb acupressurist who invariably discovers blockages in my meridians and unblocks them so that for a few days at least I feel vastly improved compared to how I felt before she manipulated those points of interest.<\/p>\n

The truth is, I would benefit greatly from a thorough massage every few days, weekly acupressure, weekly psychotherapy, and a sauna every day during the winter and twice weekly during the summer. Who wouldn\u2019t benefit from that regimen of healing help? Who has that kind of money?<\/p>\n

I remember during an anti-war demonstration long ago, a speaker reported calculations made by smart people at a renowned university that for the same amount of money the United States spent every year building weapons and waging needless wars, every person in America could afford a full-body massage every few days, weekly acupuncture treatments, weekly psychotherapy, free healthcare, free education from nursery school through graduate school, free food, and so much more. Every American. And if you don\u2019t think creating a system providing such goodies for everyone would cure our social and economic and emotional ills, you and I would not be in agreement.<\/p>\n

How\u2019s this for a variation on the basic Descartes? I receive vast amounts of physical and emotional tenderness and approval and love, therefore I am happy and not at all anxious, and I want the same for everyone else.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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